Top Ten...Okay, Eight

I know you've seen many different TOP TEN lists (TOP TEN THINGS MEN WISH WOMEN WOULD STOP ASKING THEM, TOP TEN THINGS WOMEN WISH MEN KNEW BUT DON'T...) Well this isn't one of those lists...heck it isn't even an actual list of TEN. And even though it's not exactly TEN, sometimes you come across things that resonate with you...things that are worthy of a list. Whether these things are from an experience you had first hand or something that's told to you...no matter how you get the knowledge, it's worthy of remembering.

So as with most things that I think might be helpful to others, I feel like I shouldn't keep them to myself. Yes, I know how to keep a secret but in this case, I'm telling...

TOP EIGHT LIST OF THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND

Don't settle for anything less than what you deserve. Know your worth.
No one is worth compromising your self worth, morals or feelings.
If someone wants to spend time with you or talk to you - they will. No one is always THAT busy to be TOO busy. People make time for who and what they want.
Stop trying to please everyone. You will only succeed in neglecting yourself.
Quit trying to control things that are out of your control.
Quit trying to be perfect. Just be real.
Stop accepting less. (was worth saying again)
Life is shorter than you think. So live your life, appreciate your life and stop measuring your life.

Leave me a comment or send me an email if you have any to add to the list. Who knows, maybe we can grow this list to an actual TEN.

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