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Let's Exercise!

Hey! It's been a minute since I chatted with you guys, so I thought we could jump back in with a little exercise! Yay!!
Now come on - don't be like that. A little exercise never hurt anyone..okay perhaps these people might have gotten hurt:
 
 But that's NOT the type of exercise I mean. Close your eyes - WAIT! You can't read if your eyes are closed. Hmm ok so keep your eyes open and picture the one person who makes you smile. That one person who you just can't wait to see, be around, call, text, whatever...(Bet you're grinning already). See, that person didn't even have to be around - you didn't call them, you didn't text them - all you did was think about them and now you're grinning.

How do they do it? How do they make you smile like a Cheshire cat? Maybe it's a shared memory between the two of you or maybe it's the way their eyes light up, full on sparkle when they see you. Or the way your stomach flutters and flips when you think of them...that one time they walked towards you and you suddenly got excited and nervous (Oh YES! I know that feeling oh so well, LOL) And because they have this effect on you, you are suddenly reminded of them at random times, by random things. Like what? Well, how about if you're in the mall and someone walks past you wearing the very same cologne/perfume that they wear? Or you hear a cellphone ringtone that sounds exactly like theirs or the one you have saved for them when they call you? 

Ok so now you have a good image of them in your mind, right? You can see their face? Almost smell their cologne/perfume? Yeah? Great! Now imagine that person is now giving all those smiles to someone else...OUCH, right?! You know why this happened? Because you took them and their smile inducing abilities for granted. You didn't appreciate those smiles and if you did, you failed to let them know - through words and or actions - how special they were to you. 

Now go and make sure they know they are special to you. Call them. Text them. Tell them. Show them. Thank them. Yes, that's right, thank them. For what? For the opportunity to be with them. For the you that you are because of them. Do it today before you have to face a forever of tomorrows without them. 



 

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