So on the news there was a story about a man who thought he could do a little playing while his wife was away. So what did this guy do - allegedly he hired a nude maid service to - ahem - do a little cleaning for him. LMAO! Seriously? I've never even heard of a NUDE MAID SERVICE. Well from the news reports, the NUDE maid alledgedly stole his wife's jewelry to a tune of $40,000. OMG! So wife comes home, discovers missing jewelry - and alledgedly hubby has to explain about the NUDE woman he had over to CLEAN his house. Now the jewlery was in their bedroom! You tell me why she was in their room - allegedly - in the nude - long enough to steal the jewelry? Better yet, where in the heck did she hide it? The wife told the news reporter that she was away visiting her sick mother. She went on to say that their marriage was over!
Does this prove the old adage that cheaters never prosper? I wasn't sure so I decided to do a little research! Of course there are all sorts of cheating - copying your friend's paper during a test you didn't study for, fudging on your taxes or heck sneaking a piece of fudge on your diet.
But that's not the type of cheating I'm talking about today. I'm talking about having your cake and eating it too - not being satisfied with the man or woman you have but seeking the company of others...and you know what type of company I'm referring to.
Most of us know someone who has been exposed to cheating - whether it be the cheater or the "cheatee" so I decided to do a little survey and find out what people think about the taboo subject of cheating. To do this, I went out and just asked people - different kinds of people, ages, races, ethnic groups, sex - what they thought about being unfaithful. There was a ton of responses so this may have to be done in parts. Here's part 1...
How would you feel if your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you?
Well I know how it feels. My husband cheated on me - well my first husband did anyway. And you know, it hurt but I got over it and dealt with it. I stayed with him even though I know he was still doing it (no pun intended, lol) Sometimes he would bring the woman over to my house!" Who did this response come from? Well, let's call her "church lady".
What do you think of someone who stays with their partner after you catch them cheating?
I think it can work out. If that's what you both want. Don't worry about what other folks say. Comments courtesy of "church lady"
What about getting some revenge sex with someone else?
No, don't do it. You just stay being good. Don't stoop to that level. Comments courtesty of "church lady" Oh wait, she's not done Go head on girl, ain't nothing wrong with a little messing around. So long as you don't get caught. (WTF) Don't give him your cell phone number, you get his. You don't want hubby picking up your phone and seeing the number (WTF - is this the voice of experience?) At this point, "church lady" is convinced that I'm seeking advice on my own personal relationship and that I am supposedly planning an affair of my own - NOT! I am curious about the switch in advice paths though. Did someone tell her to alter her advice? Maybe someone she told about our supposedly "private" conversations wants something to happen. Why? Who knows but it is odd, right???
Does this prove the old adage that cheaters never prosper? I wasn't sure so I decided to do a little research! Of course there are all sorts of cheating - copying your friend's paper during a test you didn't study for, fudging on your taxes or heck sneaking a piece of fudge on your diet.
But that's not the type of cheating I'm talking about today. I'm talking about having your cake and eating it too - not being satisfied with the man or woman you have but seeking the company of others...and you know what type of company I'm referring to.
Most of us know someone who has been exposed to cheating - whether it be the cheater or the "cheatee" so I decided to do a little survey and find out what people think about the taboo subject of cheating. To do this, I went out and just asked people - different kinds of people, ages, races, ethnic groups, sex - what they thought about being unfaithful. There was a ton of responses so this may have to be done in parts. Here's part 1...
How would you feel if your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you?
Well I know how it feels. My husband cheated on me - well my first husband did anyway. And you know, it hurt but I got over it and dealt with it. I stayed with him even though I know he was still doing it (no pun intended, lol) Sometimes he would bring the woman over to my house!" Who did this response come from? Well, let's call her "church lady".
What do you think of someone who stays with their partner after you catch them cheating?
I think it can work out. If that's what you both want. Don't worry about what other folks say. Comments courtesy of "church lady"
What about getting some revenge sex with someone else?
No, don't do it. You just stay being good. Don't stoop to that level. Comments courtesty of "church lady" Oh wait, she's not done Go head on girl, ain't nothing wrong with a little messing around. So long as you don't get caught. (WTF) Don't give him your cell phone number, you get his. You don't want hubby picking up your phone and seeing the number (WTF - is this the voice of experience?) At this point, "church lady" is convinced that I'm seeking advice on my own personal relationship and that I am supposedly planning an affair of my own - NOT! I am curious about the switch in advice paths though. Did someone tell her to alter her advice? Maybe someone she told about our supposedly "private" conversations wants something to happen. Why? Who knows but it is odd, right???
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